If you crave tenderness, devoted love, belonging, and the sweetness of intimacy, you can change this longing into a living experience. You can re-awakening a positive expression of self, love and sex within your marriage or relationships when you understand the dynamics of intimacy.
By solving conflicting urges to satisfy erotic love issues while balancing what is needed with what gives pleasure in love, you can then feel comfortable and secure. Our ability to give and receive love freely may be inhibited by messages received or experiences in childhood, past romances or we may feel conflicting loyalties between our families, culture, race, gender or religion. Expressing your sexual energies and personal magnetic attractiveness in ways that are both loving and respectful, or at least not harmful to ourselves and others, needs to be the focus.
When we expand our capacity to love we alleviate anxieties and insecurities that we may struggle with in our inner life. We can be our own worst enemy and may be plagued by feelings of self-doubt, condemnation, worthlessness, and guilt.
Even when friendship and open affection is offered, we may be prone to doubt it, push it away in disbelief, or feel unworthy of it. Subconsciously, we may believe that there is a price to be paid for any love or pleasure we receive, that we may be punished if we enjoy, or love too much. There is an inner link between love and loss, love and separation, or love and punishment that may inhibit us.
We tend to put work or other responsibilities ahead of the needs and desires of our hearts. But, you can transcend the drama and pain that hold your heart captive, even if you have toughened or hardened our heart, acted cold, unfeeling, ungenerous, or even in unloving ways towards others and ourselves. By healing the heart, cherishing and valuing ourselves, it is then that our personal relationships will be a reflection and allow happiness and love to flow. Why Dr. Kat Smith, America’s Intimacy Expert? Because she knows from experience. It is her life’s journey. Don’t endure another empty night. Schedule your private session with Dr. Kat Smith today.
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